One of the aspects of living in India I will miss most are the kind, friendly and hard working staff of the school. The appreciation was mutual as I was invited to wedding events. Ishita, who had the thankless job of manning the elevator and keeping secondary students from riding on it, invited me to her wedding. I was not in town for the final wedding ceremony but was able to attend one of the events: her haldi ceremony.
As many of you know, Indian weddings are big events with many ceremonies. The invitation to an Indian wedding is equally big! On the photos below, the invitation to Ishita’s wedding, you get a sense of the scale!
Page 1: the cover
Page 2: lists the name of the bride and groom, as well as the days and times for all the services.
Page 3: lists who is inviting you to join in the celebration: THE ENTIRE extended family!
The Haldi ceremony, held shortly before the wedding (from a week to the night before) happens simultaneously at the bride and grooms’ homes. The henna is already on the bride’s hands and feet; the hair is already coiffed to perfection. The next bridal outfit is on. At this ceremony (after some great dancing, snacks and food) everyone puts paste with mostly turmeric with sandalwood, rosewater (sometimes milk) and some oils on her body. Why these ingredients? Well, wise men centuries ago knew what the body needed! Turmeric: great for its antibacterial, antioxidant and anti-inflammatory properties. Takes care of any skin issues the bride and groom might have. Sandalwood is known for its cooling and calming properties (very much needed before a wedding). Officially this is believed to purify the couple, cleanse their skin and leave them with a radiant glow for the wedding day. Science and religion meet again!
I hope the joy of this community and their celebration comes through in these photos.
